01 of 22
1970
Prince Charles first met Camilla Shand in a meeting arranged by mutual friend, Lucia Santa Cruz, at a polo match. The two had an instant connection: "He loved the fact that she smiled with her eyes as well as her mouth, and laughed at the same silly things as he did. He also liked that she was so natural and easy and friendly, not in any way overawed by him, not fawning or sycophantic. In short, he was very taken with her, and after that first meeting he began ringing her up," royal biographer Penny Junor wrote in her new book, The Duchess: The Untold Story.
02 of 22
1971
Charles joined the Royal Navy, putting a strain on his relationship with Camilla. To make matters more complicated, she didn't have what were then seen as prerequisites for marrying the Prince of Wales: An aristocratic bloodline and her virginity.They eventually parted ways, and she reconnected with Andrew Parker Bowles (a former boyfriend of Princess Anne), whom she first met in the late 1960s.
03 of 22
1973
While Charles was in the Caribbean for his service with the Royal Navy, Camilla accepted a marriage proposal from Andrew Parker-Bowles. The news devastated the prince. Junor details his despair: “It seemed to him particularly cruel, he wrote in one letter, that after ‘such a blissful, peaceful and mutually happy relationship’, fate had decreed that it should last a mere six months."
04 of 22
1973
Camilla marries Parker Bowles on July 4, 1973, despite pleas from Charles not to do so. Despite Camilla's change in marital status, she and Charles remained close friends.
05 of 22
1977
Prince Charles first meets Lady Diana Spencer, who was 16 years old at the time. The relationship, however, doesn't take on any sort of romantic nature — in fact, Charles dated her older sister, Lady Sarah Spencer, who he is pictured with here.
06 of 22
1978-79
It was around the time of the birth of Camilla's daughter, Laura, that she and Charles started up the physical side of their relationship once again (despite her marriage). Parker Bowles was apparently aware of the affair. “Andrew was in no position to complain; and when he discovered what was going on, he wisely didn’t make a fuss," an excerpt from The Duchess: The Untold Story, says. "Some would say that a part of him actually quite enjoyed the fact that his wife was sleeping with the future King; he might have felt differently had Charles been a traveling salesman."
07 of 22
1980
Charles meets Diana again, and this time, begins to see her as a prospective princess. She comes with him on visits to royal residences Balmoral and Sandringham, and attended his polo matches — one of which, with Camilla. Their relationship is surrounded by media buzz and speculation, leading Charles to rush toward a proposal.
08 of 22
1981
Charles and Diana announce their engagement in February. They were seen as a fairy tale couple, but cracks in the facade showed early on. When a reporter asked the pair if they were in love, Diana responded "of course," and Charles said "whatever 'in love' means." They only saw each other 12 times before they married. During his engagement and in the early years of his marriage, Charles was faithful to Diana.
09 of 22
1981
They married on July 29, 1981, in what was dubbed the "wedding of the century." They welcomed their first child, Prince William, in 1982, and their second, Prince Harry, in 1984. Diana later said that these early years were the closest she and Charles ever came to happiness in their marriage.
10 of 22
1986
Camilla and Charles start seeing each other again, even though both are married with children.
11 of 22
1989
At this point, Diana knew about the affair, and even claims to have approached Camilla herself. "I was terrified of her. I said, 'I know what's going on between you and Charles and I just want you to know that,'" Diana said on the tapes recorded for Andrew Morton, her biographer. "She said to me: 'You've got everything you ever wanted. You've got all the men in the world fall in love with you and you've got two beautiful children, what more do you want?' So I said, 'I want my husband'. And I said, 'I'm sorry I'm in the way ... and it must be hell for both of you. But I do know what's going on. Don't treat me like an idiot.'"
12 of 22
1992
Charles's affair with Camilla became public knowledge when tapes of conversations between Charles and Camilla were leaked in the press (including the infamous "tampax" mention) and Andrew Morton's explosive book, Diana: Her True Story was published. The book was written with the help of interviews from Diana herself, though this was unknown at the time. Prince Charles and Princess Diana officially announce their separation in December, in a statement from Prime Minister John Major.
13 of 22
1994
Both Charles and Diana confirm their infidelity publicly, and Charles names Camilla as the other woman. Diana admitted to an affair with her riding instructor, James Hewitt. Camilla said this time of intense public scrutiny and press attention was painful for her. “It was horrid," she told the Daily Mail's You magazine. "It was a deeply unpleasant time and I wouldn’t want to put my worst enemy through it. I couldn’t have survived it without my family.”
14 of 22
1995
Camilla and Parker Bowles announce their intention to divorce, saying that their differing interests led to the pair living separate lives. The divorce was official in March. That same year, Diana gives an explosive interview to BBC's Panorama, in which she is candid about the affair, saying, "Well, there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded."
15 of 22
1996
Charles and Diana divorce on August 28, 1996. In the year after their divorce and before her death, she dated a few men, including heart surgeon Hasnat Khan and businessman Dodi Al-Fayed.
16 of 22
1997
Diana is killed in a car crash in Paris. Charles travels to the city to retrieve her body and bring it back to London, where thousands line the streets to mourn her death.
17 of 22
1998
Charles introduces William and Harry to Camilla, but it still seems impossible that the two would ever be able to marry if Charles was to retain his position as heir to the throne.
18 of 22
1999
Charles and Camilla appear in public for the first time together.
19 of 22
2000
The Queen attends a lunch that both Charles and Camilla are attending — a subtle, but significant acknowledgement of their relationship.
20 of 22
2003
Camilla moves into Clarence House, Charles's new London home, and is granted her own office in the space.
21 of 22
2005
Charles and Camilla announced their engagement in February, and married in a civil ceremony at Windsor Guildhall on April 9. Though Charles's parents didn't attend the ceremony, they did attend the subsequent blessing at St. George's Chapel, and hosted a reception afterwards.
22 of 22
2017
Charles and Camilla have been married for 12 years. Because Diana is so closely associated with the title Princess of Wales, Camilla instead goes by "Duchess of Cornwall." It is still not known for certain if Camilla will be granted the title of Queen Consort upon Charles's ascent to the throne after the eventual death of Queen Elizabeth.
FAQs
Why didn t Charles marry Camilla instead of Diana? ›
I will too! Answer: The big reason Prince Charles and Camilla Shand, as she was then known, didn't get married in the early 1970s: He never asked her. And there are probably a number of reasons for that. In his early 20s, like many other young men, Charles simply wasn't ready for marriage.
Did Prince Charles ever love Camilla? ›Andersen said that Diana found out that "Charles always loved Camilla" on the eve of their wedding — and noted that Camilla actually was involved in initiating the coupling of Charles and Diana in the first place (another tidbit: Charles also dated Diana's elder sister).
Did Camilla go to Diana's funeral? ›Camilla may have been at Diana's wedding but she was not welcome at her funeral, which was watched by an estimated 2.5 billion people around the world. Still, to many her absence echoed around the ancient hall. The Queen made it clear to Charles that he could not take his paramour to the service.
Did Diana know about Camilla before marrying Charles? ›Yep. Diana thought Charles and Camilla were just friends and found out about their history only after she said yes to his proposal.
Does William have to bow to Camilla? ›You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. Unclear if this was an intentional snub, but what we do know is that Prince William–and every member of the British royal family—is expected to bow to Queen Camilla.
Did the Queen approve of Charles marrying Camilla? ›According to the BBC, it was the Queen's stamp of approval. Five years later, Charles and Camilla were engaged after the Queen gave them her blessing. However, Queen Elizabeth didn't attend the legal ceremony, but she did make an appearance at a secondary blessing, which she hosted at St. George's Chapel.
Why did Charles choose Camilla over Diana? ›He went on to claim Camilla had much more in common with Charles including his hobbies, interests and upbringing. Describing Camilla, he said: “The heir apparent was considerably older, well-educated, well-traveled and worldly.”
Why was Camilla not suitable for Charles? ›However, the royal family wasn't interested in having Camilla as its princess. For one thing, she was perceived as an “experienced” woman, which was a nonstarter for the royal family back then in terms of a suitable spouse for Prince Charles.
What did Princess Anne say to Camilla? ›The Princess Royal is alleged to have told her sister-in-law that her title is Queen Consort and not Queen, according to Princess Diana's dressmaker, David Emanuel.
Did Diana really go to dinner with Camilla? ›In The Crown this season, the two women even meet up for lunch after the big engagement. But did this really happen in real life? According to Andrew Morton's biography, Diana: Her True Story in Her Own Words, written with his subject's cooperation in 1992, it did.
Why did Princess Margaret not bow to Diana's coffin? ›
TheTalko website revealed how Margaret took her disdain for Diana to the late Princess' funeral, refusing to bow her head as the hearse drove past. The publication claimed: "Even though the story was true, Margaret could never forgive Diana for making the family look bad.
How long did it take Charles to marry Camilla after Diana died? ›Nearly eight years after Princess Diana's death in a car crash was mourned the world over, Prince Charles, her widower and heir to the British throne, weds his longtime mistress, Camilla Parker Bowles.
Did Camilla wear white to Diana's wedding? ›Camilla did attend Charles and Diana's wedding in 1981. However, Princess Diana said that Camilla did not wear white, noting instead that the future queen consort donned a light gray for the occasion. "I knew she was in there, of course.
Did Prince Charles have a bracelet made for Camilla? ›Naturally, being the nosy parkers that we are, we've done a bit of digging... and it seems that royal biographer, Penny Junor, has confirmed that Charles did indeed give Camilla a bracelet with a 'F' and an 'G' inscribed on it.
Does Prince William wear a wedding ring? ›In fact, the new Prince of Wales has never worn a wedding ring - and never plans to do so. In March 2011, one month before the Royal Wedding, St James' Palace confirmed that William wouldn't be wearing a wedding band.
What will William be called when King? ›Like his father, if William chooses to use his first name he would be known as King William V. As previously stated by a hilarious young student, William the Conqueror was the first King William.
Why did Camilla not wear a tiara? ›Instead of a traditional church wedding, Prince Charles and Bowles opted for a civil ceremony at the Windsor Guildhall, followed by a blessing at St George's Chapel. Since they didn't actually get married in a church, it's not custom for the bride to wear formal jewelry, like a tiara.
Did the Queen reject Camilla? ›Royal expert Katie Nicholl said Queen Elizabeth II once referred to Camilla as "that wicked woman." For years, the Queen refused to sanction Camilla and Charles' relationship after their affair. But Nicholl said Elizabeth eventually warmed to Camilla, naming her as the next Queen Consort.
What is the British opinion of Camilla? ›In April 2023, 48 percent of the British people had a positive opinion of Camilla, Queen Consort while 39 percent reported a negative impression. Camilla has steadily become more popular among people in Great Britain since October 2019, when just 40 percent reported having a positive opinion of the Queen Consort.
Are Charles and Camilla happy? ›It's been a rocky road, but these two finally found their happily ever after. Of all the modern royal romances, King Charles and Queen Camilla's has more twists and turns than a romantic comedy.
What is the difference between a queen and a queen consort? ›
As NBC royal commentator Daisy McAndrew puts it, a “queen consort is a woman who married a man who is king,” and a “queen is a woman who is born to be queen and is head of state — not the wife of a monarch.”
What did King Charles say to Camilla? ›The monarch arrived at Westminster Abbey ahead of schedule on Saturday morning and had to wait outside for five minutes before entering the church. The King was caught on camera grumbling to Queen Camilla, telling her "this is boring", as he waited to enter Westminster Abbey for his own coronation.
What Charles has said about Camilla? ›He also said of Camilla, "Mrs. Parker Bowles is a great friend of mine … a friend for a very long time. She will continue to be a friend for a very long time."
Did Diana find out about Camilla? ›1986: According to Prince Charles's authorized biography, Prince of Wales by Jonathan Dimbleby, this is when Charles and Camilla's affair began. Diana soon discovers the transgression and confronts Camilla at a birthday party in 1989.
Why did Queen Elizabeth bow to Diana's casket? ›It is known that before the Queen, who is the symbol of national unity, everyone bowed. "But that day, it is Elizabeth who bowed her head as a sign of respect for the passage of Diana's coffin, the woman who wore more than anyone else had defied the conventions of the palace."
Why did Charles wear blue to Diana's funeral? ›After Princess Diana died in 1997, Charles, then the Prince of Wales, wore a navy suit to her funeral. At the time, royal watchers read his outfit choice as a tribute to the late princess; Diana was said to have preferred men in navy.
Did Queen Elizabeth bow to Diana at her funeral? ›The queen stood with her family, and as Diana's funeral cortege passed by, she bowed her head. It was not a quick bow, nor a shallow one. The woman accustomed to being bowed by the world now lowered her head and humbly honored the princess.
How long did Charles know Diana before marrying her? ›Diana was well received at Balmoral by Queen Elizabeth II, Prince Philip, and Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother. The couple then had several dates in London. Diana and Charles had been seeing each other for about six months when he proposed on 3 February 1981 in the nursery at Windsor Castle.
What were Princess Diana's last words? ›Before she was taken out of the car, he held her hand and comforted her. "My God, what's happened," Diana then asked him, in what proved to be her final words. "I massaged her heart and a few seconds later she started breathing again.
Did Diana spilled perfume on her wedding dress? ›On the day of her wedding, Princess Diana accidentally spilled some Quelques Fleurs perfume on her dress, her makeup artist Barbara Daly revealed in Diana: The Portrait. Diana was quick to tuck the front of her dress in, though, effectively hiding the stain.
Was Camilla friends with Diana? ›
Diana was initially friendly with Camilla—until she found out about her relationship with Charles. Before that uncomfortable lunch, Camilla and Diana got along relatively well while the princess and Prince Charles were courting in 1980.
Did Camilla really meet Diana before the wedding? ›Did Camilla and Diana really meet for lunch? According to royal writer Andrew Morton, the two women did in fact meet for lunch prior to the royal wedding.
Does the royal family bow to Camilla? ›Since Charles has taken to the throne, the tradition has changed so that now, in the Royal order, Camilla has outranked Princess Anne - meaning all the royal women in the family must (and will) curtsy to her. However, she will not have to curtsy to anyone.
Can Camilla wear the crown jewels? ›It has been reported that controversy surrounding the symbolism of the Koh-i-Noor is likely to have contributed to Camilla's decision to exclude the gem from the crown she wears at the coronation.
Does Camilla have pierced ears? ›Despite having a vault of royal jewelry at her disposal, Queen Camilla has never had her ears pierced — and says she never will. In an interview with British Vogue last year she said, "The grandchildren will try to persuade me, but nothing's going to pierce my ears."
Was Camilla shaking at Queen's funeral? ›The former Duchess of Cornwall, was seemingly trembling as she walked alongside family to honour the Queen. Body language expert, Face Whisper, tells Daily Star: “There's definitely something going on with Camilla's health. “On the close up we see her slightly shaking.
Was Camilla invited to Charles and Diana's wedding? ›Yes, Camilla was in attendance at Charles and Diana's wedding in 1991. And it's not necessarily a surprise - given that the Queen's son and Camilla were so close.
Were Camilla children at the Queen's funeral? ›Prince William and Prince Harry's step-siblings Laura Lopes and Tom Parker Bowles made a rare appearance with the rest of the royal family during the state funeral of Queen Elizabeth on Monday, September 19. Laura and Tom are Queen Consort Camilla's children, and don't attend too many royal events.
When did Charles and Camilla go public after Diana's death? ›After Princess Diana's tragic death in 1997, plans to slowly introduce Camilla to the public were put on hold. In January 1999, the two were finally photographed together in public, leaving a birthday party for Camilla's sister, Annabel Elliot, at the Ritz Hotel in London.
Did Camilla see the queen before she died? ›A source close to the royal family tells ET that the queen's eldest son, Prince Charles (now King Charles III), and his wife Camilla, who is now the Queen Consort, were able to see Her Highness before she died. Elizabeth's daughter, Princess Anne, was also able to see her.
What did Camilla wear to Queen Elizabeth's funeral? ›
The wife of King Charles III arrived at Westminster Abbey in London this morning in a black mourning look. The outfit was composed of black coat dress with matching stockings and shoes, as well as a black fascinator embellished with flower appliqués and a netted veil.
Where will Camilla be buried? ›She will be buried in the castle's King George VI Memorial Chapel, alongside her father, her mother, and her sister's ashes.
Who was Diana's hidden daughter? ›If Simon Charles Dorante-Day was a wild story about the Royal Family, wait until you hear about the story about King Charles III and Princess Diana's illegitimate daughter. Her name is supposed too be Sarah and she was born in 1981, before Prince William's birth.
What did Camilla say to Kate about Charlotte at the funeral? ›As lip reader Jeremy Freeman told The Sun, after the pinching incident played out, Camilla appeared to point at Charlotte and turned to Kate and said, "Take her." Yikes! We know that it was a moment to stay somber, but like we said before, kids are definitely going to be kids.
What happens to Camilla's children now she is Queen Consort? ›The short answer: No, Camilla's children will not automatically receive any royal titles. Camilla's royal titles are due to her marriage to Charles, and they will not pass on to her children or grandchildren. Her children are not in the line of succession to the throne, either.
Has Prince Charles ever been to Diana's grave? ›The Earl remembered a special day. Share this: Princess Diana's brother Charles Spencer shared a special video which saw him visiting the site of his late sister's grave on Friday, on what would have been her 61st birthday.